Very long (and unrelated to SOE) story short, a few years ago, I stopped letting trivial shit get me worked up.They appear to make some nice gear, but I can't support egotistical cock suckers.
A bunch of talk and a few cancelled orders here and there seems pretty trivial to me so I just don't care. His work is superb and he had a design that met my needs incredibly well.
The little Italian cobbler I use is a raging racist. He's not violent and he won't turn down business from an ethnic person, he just uses some colorful language in a derogatory tone. He also does good work at a great price. That's what matters to me, I don't have to be his friend.
An accountant I've used is likely one of the gayest individuals on the planet. He's not trying to stick it in my ass. He does good work at a fair price.
There are so many huge issues about which to be irate, yet people focus on trivial shit constantly.
I like to think of JW as the Soup Nazi from Seinfeld. He has a very precise set of rules that he requires his customers to follow. If you can't/don't want to follow them, he's just as happy for you to not order his goods.